The Reset Score

Your Reset Score

You answered 21 questions across 7 pillars of your life. Here’s what we measured, and what to do with it.

What the Reset Score measures

The Reset Score maps seven dimensions of how stress is showing up in your life: your body, your emotions, your boundaries, your relationships, your voice, your clarity, and your sense of purpose. Each pillar gets a score from 0 to 6. Your total (out of 42) tells you how much of your life is running on autopilot.

But the total isn’t the point. The shape is. Two people can score 24 and face completely different problems. One scores high on Communication and Clarity but low on Physicality and Emotions: they present well at work while their body and emotional life are falling apart. Another scores high on Emotions and Love but low on Power and Clarity: they feel everything and decide nothing. Same number; completely different prescription.

That’s why the score gives you two things: a pillar-by-pillar breakdown showing where you’re strong and where the work is, and an archetype that captures the overall pattern.

Your archetype

Your archetype is the shape of your score across all seven dimensions. It tells you what’s working, what’s underneath, and where to start. People share archetypes the way they share Enneagram numbers: “I’m a Protector” carries more signal than “I scored a 24.”

  • The Performer: Looks put-together; crumbling inside. Strong Communication and Clarity, low Physicality and Emotions.
  • The Protector: Safe but isolated. Strong Physicality and Power, low Love and Communication.
  • The Absorber: Feels everything; decides nothing. Strong Emotions and Love, low Power and Clarity.
  • The Achiever: Winning without meaning. Strong Physicality, Power, and Clarity; low Emotions, Love, and Connection.
  • The Thinker: Sees everything; feels nothing. Strong Clarity, low Physicality, Emotions, and Connection.
  • The Spark: Burns bright; burns out. Strong Connection and Love, low Physicality and Power.
  • The Muted: Everything turned down equally. Flat profile, no peaks or valleys.
  • The Builder: Solid foundation; searching for purpose. Strong Physicality, Emotions, and Power; low Communication, Clarity, and Connection.

The seven pillars

Each pillar has its own element, its own shadow, and its own practice. Your score tells you which ones need attention first.

PillarElementShadowThe Practice
PhysicalityEarthFearThe Earth Practice
EmotionsWaterGuiltThe Water Practice
PowerFireShameThe Fire Practice
LoveAirGriefThe Air Practice
CommunicationSoundFalsityThe Sound Practice
ClarityLightIllusionThe Light Practice
ConnectionEtherEgoThe Ether Practice

What to do next

  1. Read your archetype page. It tells you which two pillars to focus on first and why.
  2. Explore those pillar deep-dives. Each one has the specific practice, what your score level means, and where to start.
  3. Build a playlist. Every practice in the framework starts with the right music. The pillar pages and recommended reading will point you toward songs that do specific work.

Your score is a snapshot, not a sentence. It tells you where you are right now. What you do with it is the practice.

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